Ending Sexual Violence

Sexual violence violates a person’s basic human rights of personal integrity, security and safety. It is a form of oppression that has a profound impact on individuals, families and communities. Sexual violence is not just about a single event or act but it is a pattern of abuse and control that may continue over the course of a lifetime. Sexual violence can be perpetrated by strangers, acquaintances, coworkers, friends, family members and even intimate partners.

People who experience sexual violence are affected by many different physical and psychological impacts. These can range from concerns about pregnancy or risk of STIs to anxiety, depression and fear of others. The emotional and psychological impact of sexual violence can last a lifetime, with the effects extending to other relationships, work and school, and down through generations. There are also financial costs associated with the criminal justice system, crisis and mental health services, and the lost contributions of those who experience sexual assault or harassment.

Sexual assault, including rape and other sexual violence, happens to women, men, and gender diverse individuals from all backgrounds, in every community. It affects families, children, schools and workplaces and is about power and control. Sexual violence can take on ritualistic or other bizarre qualities and is often done without the consent of the victim.

Some people believe that if a survivor didn’t fight back or say “no” to their attacker they were somehow weak. This is a false belief and no survivor should be judged for their reaction to the attack. In reality, a victim of sexual violence may not have the strength to physically resist their attacker or they might not know how to stop it from happening. Survivors can experience a full spectrum of emotions including calm, hysteria, laughter and anger. It is important to remember that no one has the right to impose their will on any other person.

Sexual violence is a complex issue with many causes at the individual, interpersonal and structural levels. At the individual level it is rooted in harmful attitudes and beliefs, and the way that we socially construct gender. This includes the patriarchal role ascriptions and stereotypes that lead to violence against women.

Individuals can help to end sexual violence by supporting their local advocacy centers and educating themselves about issues like consent, boundaries and the sexualization of minors. They can also support legislation that supports victims and holds offenders accountable for their actions. Every action makes a difference.